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We asked AONC readers to add their own contributions to this week's "How to Be Unhappy" post (aonc.co/OMbvlT).
《不服從的創新》讀者的回饋：「如何不快樂？」
Here's what some of them had to say:
他們說：
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Refuse to see the marvelous opportunities unfolding in front of you each day. Then refuse to meet them. --Cherilyn
（拒絕去看每天攤在你面前的絕佳機會，然後，也拒絕去碰觸。）
Let fear rule your life. --Rachel
（讓恐懼控制了你的生活。）
Fail to be grateful. --Katie
（無法感恩。）
Gossip. Talk about anyone and everyone, as long as they are not there. --Maria
（閒聊八卦。聊那些不在場的人的事情。）
Let failure paralyze you & keep you from trying again. --Dara
（任由失敗將你癱瘓，讓你不敢再次嘗試）
Trying to achieve perfection. Trying to do everything. Trying to please everyone. --Tom
（試圖要完美。想要做每一件事。想要討好所有人。）
Refuse to fail. Only do what you know you’re good at and will be successful in. --Andrea
（拒絕失敗。只做那些自己擅長的、鐵定會成功的安全事情。）
Give up. --Alyznde
（放棄！）
Be vigilant in taking offence and swift to point the finger at others’ shortcomings. --Mary
（警覺：避免因為生氣而將箭頭指向他人的缺失。）
Talk about your big idea to everyone but never take any action towards it. --Izzy
（跟每一個人說自己的構想與夢想，但從沒有採取任何行動。）
Giving other’s opinions and beliefs more weight than your own. --Val
（比較相信相信別人的意見與信念，而比較不相信自已的。）
Blame others for your downfalls. --Kamesha
（挫折時責怪他人。）
Never create anything, just complain about everything. --Matt
（從不創造，只會抱怨。）
Refuse to smile. --Sebastian
（拒絕微笑。）
Refuse to pursue beauty. Stare at a screen (Computer, TV, Phone, etc.) as much as you can instead. --TSP
（拒絕追求美好的事物。總是緊盯著電腦、電視、手機的螢幕。）
Wear something beige. --Sabine
（沒有風格。）
Another surefire route to discontent: Hoard. Dont share the three Ts of time, talent & treasure. Even if it's more than what you need. Have the mindset that you're better off than the other person. Gloat as much. --Jude
（囤積：不願意分享時間、天賦與資源。儘管你現有的比需要的多，也不願意分享。認為自己比別人更優秀。愛好幸災樂禍。）
Talk about how much you hate Mondays. Every Monday. Tell everyone you meet. --Mira
（開口閉口就一直講討厭週一的上班日。）
Set expectations for what you want others to do. --Darryl
（幫別人設定他要完成哪些你對他的期望。）
Insist on being right. --Dale
（堅持自已一定是對的。）
Refuse to see the marvelous opportunities unfolding in front of you each day. Then refuse to meet them. --Cherilyn
（拒絕去看每天攤在你面前的絕佳機會，然後，也拒絕去碰觸。）
Let fear rule your life. --Rachel
（讓恐懼控制了你的生活。）
Fail to be grateful. --Katie
（無法感恩。）
Gossip. Talk about anyone and everyone, as long as they are not there. --Maria
（閒聊八卦。聊那些不在場的人的事情。）
Let failure paralyze you & keep you from trying again. --Dara
（任由失敗將你癱瘓，讓你不敢再次嘗試）
Trying to achieve perfection. Trying to do everything. Trying to please everyone. --Tom
（試圖要完美。想要做每一件事。想要討好所有人。）
Refuse to fail. Only do what you know you’re good at and will be successful in. --Andrea
（拒絕失敗。只做那些自己擅長的、鐵定會成功的安全事情。）
Give up. --Alyznde
（放棄！）
Be vigilant in taking offence and swift to point the finger at others’ shortcomings. --Mary
（警覺：避免因為生氣而將箭頭指向他人的缺失。）
Talk about your big idea to everyone but never take any action towards it. --Izzy
（跟每一個人說自己的構想與夢想，但從沒有採取任何行動。）
Giving other’s opinions and beliefs more weight than your own. --Val
（比較相信相信別人的意見與信念，而比較不相信自已的。）
Blame others for your downfalls. --Kamesha
（挫折時責怪他人。）
Never create anything, just complain about everything. --Matt
（從不創造，只會抱怨。）
Refuse to smile. --Sebastian
（拒絕微笑。）
Refuse to pursue beauty. Stare at a screen (Computer, TV, Phone, etc.) as much as you can instead. --TSP
（拒絕追求美好的事物。總是緊盯著電腦、電視、手機的螢幕。）
Wear something beige. --Sabine
（沒有風格。）
Another surefire route to discontent: Hoard. Dont share the three Ts of time, talent & treasure. Even if it's more than what you need. Have the mindset that you're better off than the other person. Gloat as much. --Jude
（囤積：不願意分享時間、天賦與資源。儘管你現有的比需要的多，也不願意分享。認為自己比別人更優秀。愛好幸災樂禍。）
Talk about how much you hate Mondays. Every Monday. Tell everyone you meet. --Mira
（開口閉口就一直講討厭週一的上班日。）
Set expectations for what you want others to do. --Darryl
（幫別人設定他要完成哪些你對他的期望。）
Insist on being right. --Dale
（堅持自已一定是對的。）
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